Thursday, October 16, 2014

Why Should Youth Partnerships between South-East Asia and India Exist?

(This was an essay I passed for an international program which I unfortunately did not qualify for. That was a bummer. But oh well, might as well post this.)

"Never mind the fact that building international partnerships in itself is beneficial in various ways. And never mind that harnessing the relational capability of today's youth could lead to endless developments across the board, but encouraging a partnership between the youth sectors in India and the ASEAN specifically could be one of the most brilliant propositions to come about in  the realm of asian development. This thrust could not only help build bridges in the individual level, but it would mean creating strong, long-term connections on an international level.

Most people would brush it off as typical International Relations, and that it wouldn't be much different than creating bonds with other countries. But I personally beg to differ. 

How so? Three main reasons:

Firstly, there is an unspoken, over-arching camaraderie present between asian countries, especially those in East/South-East Asia. Not only do we have similar colonial pasts, which has imbued its fair share of intrinsic values towards the people of ASEAN and India, but our own cultures in itself hold high value towards similar things in life (i.e. Religion, Family, Honor). This means that off the bat, there is an existing kindredness between both parties. There is an already-existing brotherhood present even before we say our first hellos. These similarities are what brings us together despite the distance, and will all the more bind us when we put more effort into bridging that distance. 

Secondly, the differences that exist between these cultures actively compliment each other. The subtle nuances in our ways of life allow us to remind ourselves to keep our minds open to these differences. These, accompanied with the said similarities, helps create this dynamic relationship wherein one does not become too intimidated with the unfamiliarity to shun away any form of interaction, and does not become too familiar to not expect anything new from the relationship. This leads us not only to establish a brotherly connection, but a learning one as well. 

And finally, our present circumstances allow us to draw ourselves nearer to each other. Developing nations, all working together in finding ways to make lives easier for everyone. Countries just brimming with potential, sharing ideas that could change the course of modern history. This amount of fresh interaction and discourse can be at the very least, groundbreaking. And who best bring all these ideas together but the youth? The very ones that hold the potential. The very entity the future relies on. 

Regardless of however these countries may approach the interaction, the important part is that interaction DOES happen. That sharing WOULD be a reality. Because we can't really lose out on the opportunity to harness the youth resource we have. We are asian, after all. The melting pot of development and innovation. If this plan would be done right, and with the intended key-players actively involved, the future is not only bright in the national sense, but brilliant in the global perspective."

Tuesday, May 6, 2014

Seen 4/30/2014 2:34 AM

Hi.
Hey there.
What's up?
Nothin' much.
Cool. 
Haha. Well, how about you?
I'm fine. Same same.
That's nice. 
It's been pretty lonely though.
Eh?
Haha. Seriously, it's been boring.
How's that so?
Dunno. Could be a number of things.
Like what?
Like, you know, the heat---god, it's hot
I know right?!
Yeah, or because it's summer
Aren't you in class or something?
We graduated together remember?
Oh yeah. Haha.
Whatever. 
Relax, I was kidding bro.
Screw you.
The hell?! Why you "screw you"-ing me for? 
Because you're an asshole. 
Why am I an asshole?
You really wanna know?
Yeah.
Well okay. First of all, how insensitive are you to reduce me to a "bro"? Me, of all people. You don't "bro" a guy you dated for three and a half years. You don't "bro" a guy you've made out for hours with. You "bro" someone who had tagay with you one time, you "bro" a fellow tambay, you "bro" a friend, a buddy, a kabarkada. I am---or was---more than that. I deserve more than a name you call hundreds of other people. I deserve either to be ignored or to be asked for another chance. Not this. Not "bro". So no, you can never call me "bro". Or bai. Or pare
Okay. Sorry abo---
Shut up. I'm not done. Secondly, how dare you act like you don't remember anything about us? How we met when I needed a lab partner and you got into class too late. How we bonded over five bottles of Sparkle and packs of Sweet 'n Spicy Pancit Canton. How we got to know that you were the artsy, writing guy and I was the math dork. How we fell in love despite failing grades and INCs. How we finally got our shit together and finished college, side by side, ten rows over. How dare you forget all about the life we had as best friends, as confidants---as lovers? As much as it is over, it still happened. You don't forget stupid mistakes that easily. You ought to remember us---at least the concept of us----even if it were as regrets. 
I'm sorry. I really didn't mean to hurt you, B.
Really? You didn't? You didn't mean to purposefully degrade me to mere acquaintanceship? You didn't mean to act as if I never existed? Like I never, not even once, took part in getting you to where you are now? After everything? No? 
No, not really. And well...
Well what?!
Nothing.
Tell me.
No, never mind.
Stop screwing around. Tell me. Tell me now.
Well, I mean, you know. YOU PMed ME, remember?